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Why do some people seem charismatic and interesting on the Internet, but are lost in real life?

Why do some people seem charismatic and interesting on the Internet, but are lost in real life? It happens that in correspondence a person jokes, gets excited, seems charismatic and confident, but in life – is completely different, modest and even a little reserved. What gives people courage in chat? Is it just time to think about the answer or something more? How to distinguish those who are really like they seem in correspondence from those who are just “playing a role”?

Re: Why do some people seem charismatic and interesting on the Internet, but are lost in real life?

This probably happens because we always want to seem better than we really are.

Re: Why do some people seem charismatic and interesting on the Internet, but are lost in real life?

I love chatting online, but in real life. In a chat, there is always time to think about the answer, plus I feel freer when I am not judged by my appearance. I recently met a girl on QuickFlirt in an anonymous chat, her messages were super charismatic and funny. It was because of her that I liked flirt with strangers online . After corresponding, we met - and it turned out that in life she was even more interesting. Now we are developing our relationship and I wonder where this will lead.